Lucifer Sam
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I happen to agree, but also remember the way the guy handled a close relative's death: by asking folks in Guyana to send flowers via Interflora and letting his nephew or NoNameNumpty proudly post pictures of massive graffiti on the walls of her house.
I found that silly, tacky, egomaniacal and bordering on indecent, but nobody else found it problematic at the time.
...Funny how we react differently to things according to our own background and sensitivity, eh?
Touché. I am fine with approaching this with an eye toward subjectivity. Truly, one man's tacky is another man's proper. Personally I think Morrissey Central should be nuked altogether, and I don't know why that picture of Elizabeth Dwyer on a Staten Island beach in a bikini was turned into something like an icon surrounded by votive candles. For a certain subsection of devoted Morrissey fans, that picture became Juan Diego's tilma. "Am I not your mother?" I felt as sorry as I basically could for him about his loss (I am a mother's boy myself), but some of that whole episode was indeed borderline hideous, and on a much, much smaller scale it mirrored the "fandom grief" which was studied with such a critical eye by Christopher Hitchens in his Diana documentary The Mourning After. It's inexplicable to me. Is Morrissey hypocritical for hating the One Love Manchester concert while overlooking his own grief garishness? Possibly. It doesn't negate the power of the song for me.
About that song about twerking and that dead teen (or was that by another Disney singer), I think the least we owe to the dead we lived with is to try our best to honour their life as we think they would have liked. It's not easy to all agree on how to do it, but there ARE guidelines, sometimes even given explicitely by them. To disregard them just...sucks.
In the case of Side to Side, Ariana Grande said the wishes of the daughter were expressed by her parents. Unless a fifteen-year-old had a last will & testament, which is unlikely, I assume the parents said, "she liked this song." I guess that's one way to have your daughter memorialized. In their defense, they may not have known what the lyrics were about. Interestingly, Miley Cyrus, who is hypothesized to be a friend of Morrissey's, performed at the same concert.
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