Yeah, I see your point. I'd be interested in what she thinks about the song, whether she had been asked, before her biography and identity were appropriated. It's a cute video though, the puppets and all, but also sort of insensitive how they dig into these people's private life.
I love this song but the ethics of it worry me a bit? Like, is it OK to write a song from the perspective of a (still living) woman, about her old relationship with her (dead) husband? I dunno.