Hi Tibby.
If you don't want to have to approve comments before they are posted, you can change the default setting.
If you still want to approve them before they show, you can approve individual comments at the post level.
So... to
change the default, go to
Blog Settings (at the top of your blog). Click tab. Then click on
Permissions & Privacy from the menu on the left. Then under
Default Entry Options, uncheck
Moderate comments before displaying. Then
Save.
To approve an
individual comment, go to the the blog entry. Check the box next to the comment. Then click the grey
Moderation tab. It opens a window. Click
approve comments. Then click
Proceed. You can also delete comments if you need to.
PM me if you have any trouble.